YouTuber Kim Ddol-ddol spoke about the real struggles of gay couples.
On the 10th, the channel 안녕한샘요 uploaded a video titled "36-year-old gay Kim Ddol-ddol and the woman-worshipping Jung Hyuk: can they become friends? | Singles ep.15".
In the video that day, Jung Hyuk visited Kim Ddol-ddol's home. After touring the house, Jung Hyuk ate the meal Kim Ddol-ddol prepared and talked about marriage. Jung Hyuk asked "First of all, as a single person, aren't you completely fed up with that life by now. Now I want to get married. I'm sufficiently prepared. But aren't the conditions and circumstances a bit harder to meet".
Kim Ddol-ddol pointed out the difference, saying "Anyway, gay couples often date secretly for legal and other reasons, so breaking up is too easy. There's a saying that gays have a hard time making it past a year. They date secretly, and if things go wrong between the two, they can just break up. But heterosexuals date openly, so because the people around them know about the relationship, they take care to keep it going."
In response, Jung Hyuk asked, "So do you want to get married and live where legal systems are needed?", and Kim Ddol-ddol expressed the wish, "I want to be bound intensely."
Jung Hyuk said, "Like when you divorce and split assets 50-50. Like an inescapable noose?", and Kim Ddol-ddol replied, "So that breaking up would be a bit troublesome," which caused laughter.
Then Jung Hyuk asked, "When you get married, do you wear a dress, Ddol-ddol?", and Kim Ddol-ddol explained, "No. There is that. Gay people have a culture of wearing white tuxedos, white white tuxedos to get married." He added in response to the question "What should we say — that you 'go to get married' or that you 'go to a bride's house'?": "Technically it's 'go to get married,' but we just say 'go to the bride's house.' Because you are going to a man."
Jung Hyuk asked, "If you have a wedding, do you have a romance or something you want to do like this?", and Kim Ddol-ddol said he wanted "an outdoor wedding that really feels like a party. I want to have day drinking and have the wedding like that."
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