'Single's Inferno5' Kim Go-eun said she experienced both EXchange / Transit Love and ghosting breakups.
On the 25th, a video titled "(dialect warning) have you ever been through EXchange / Transit Love, Goni…? MBTI "T" types' love balance game obsession version" was uploaded to the "Goni" channel run by Kim Go-eun.
That day Kim Go-eun talked with acquaintances on the topic "EXchange breakup vs. ghosting breakup." They chose which of the two was worse. Hearing this, Kim Go-eun said "I really hate it" and cast her vote for ghosting breakup.
She explained, "Because at least with an EXchange you know the reason. You can get angry and curse. But with ghosting you don't know the reason and I worry about them and then they just ghost you." An acquaintance who also voted for "ghosting breakup" agreed, saying, "Isn't that a lack of consideration for me?"
Kim Go-eun said, "Until yesterday they were saying 'I love you, honey, good night'," but an acquaintance who voted for "EXchange breakup" countered, "There would be signs, right? If they were saying 'I love you, honey' until yesterday, they wouldn't suddenly ghost you, would they?"
Another acquaintance explained why they chose "EXchange breakup," saying, "If it's an EXchange they almost start dating immediately. Then a hundred out of a hundred times it's someone I was a little annoyed by before. They were just a friend I said 'this person is just a friend,' and they suddenly start dating that person. And they do that right after breaking up with me. They say, 'I think my feelings for you have cooled,' and then break up and suddenly meet that person. I think I'd be so angry."
As the debate continued, an acquaintance asked, "Who has been through EXchange / Transit Love?" Kim Go-eun raised her hand and confessed, "I was EXchanged by someone I had ghosted," eliciting sympathy.
She said, "But from my experience, ghosting was harder. I worried and went to find them and did that," and added honestly, "When I was EXchanged, they were with me and another woman came. So I just cursed and fought and it ended. But when I was ghosted I worried, went to find them, and asked friends, and all my friends were in on it. That's what hurts. Because I'm having a hard time."
Meanwhile, Kim Go-eun appeared on the Netflix dating reality show Single's Inferno5, which ended in February. At the time she became a final couple with Woo Seong-min but did not continue as a real-life couple, and after the finale she showed chemistry with Jo I Geon but said it did not develop into a romantic relationship.<
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