Broadcaster Seo Dong-ju candidly shared her feelings after a missed miscarriage.
On the 14th, a video titled "How does Seo Dong-ju heal sadness through painting?" was uploaded to Seo Dong-ju's "Tto.Do.Dong" channel.
That day Seo Dong-ju said, "Today's filming date is April 6, so some time has passed. It hasn't been a full week yet, but a few days have passed. After a few days, I felt much better. I cried less than I thought. The next day I felt much better, and the following day even more so, and now I'm in a very stable state," she shared her condition after the dilation and curettage.
Earlier, Seo Dong-ju overcame infertility through in vitro fertilization and became pregnant with Chilbok-i (the embryo nickname), but ultimately had to let it go due to a missed miscarriage. She opened up, "Having gone through it again, it wasn't that big of a deal. I was okay. If anyone is in a similar situation, I hope you won't worry too much. As time passes, you endure it and get better. So everything will be okay."
She said, "I thought that if I cried for too long and carried bad energy, it wouldn't be good. For the past two months I really ate healthily, lived healthily and tried to think good thoughts. It would be such a waste. I was afraid my efforts would go to waste. The next cycle will start soon, and if I stay drowned in sadness, the body I had made healthy would get ruined and my mental health would deteriorate, and that would be a shame. So I decided to smile and stubbornly stay happy. 'I'm happy, I'm okay,' I kept saying," she said, revealing she tried to maintain a positive mindset for the next procedure.
She continued, "My husband said, 'Dong-ju's mental strength is really strong.' He said we have to be efficient, can't be sad, it's not over yet. Anyway, I did well, ate healthier, walked and tried to rest fully. I tried my best to think good thoughts and be positive over the past few days. My husband and I were, uh? x uh? x and spent the last few days well. I don't think I'll have regrets regardless of the outcome. Next time," she said frankly.
Later, Seo Dong-ju asked her husband, who appeared for a studio real estate tour, "We went through this sadness together. Did you learn anything new about me from going through it?" Her husband said, "I'd say your mental health is really strong. You endured it well, and even though I didn't show it, it was probably a difficult time. Seeing you get through it gave me strength, too, and I managed well."
The producers said, "Many subscribers were very worried," and Seo Dong-ju thanked them, "I was so grateful. I'd read comments when I was having a hard time before bed and then sleep." Her husband also said, "I saw them all. Thank you very much," and expressed his gratitude.
Seo Dong-ju said, "Some people experienced multiple miscarriages and then became pregnant. Thinking about those people's mental strength made me feel I couldn't just collapse here. I admire them. I wonder how they endured that time. There are many amazing people. I learned so much, and after all our thoughts are over, even if it doesn't work, at least a healthy body remains. It doesn't go to zero. There are definitely things that remain, and if we become healthy we won't get sick and will live longer, which is most important. I keep thinking positively that it could turn out that way," she conveyed her positive mindset.
Her husband said, "When we talked, we agreed that if we succeed on the second attempt, we'll share the whole process. To help overcome the low birthrate era," and Seo Dong-ju promised, "There may be many people doing better than us, but influencers with severely decreased ovarian reserve may share less. It's a specialized field. If I have information I'll share it. But if it doesn't work, there's actually nothing to share. If it succeeds I will share it."
Her husband marveled, "A trait of people who really study well is that they study very hard about this. They look up all the videos and read papers. They look at materials from Korea and the U.S. It's like getting a doctorate." Seo Dong-ju said, "We really learned a lot, and if we try again and succeed, we'll make a success story and distribute it for free."
Meanwhile, last year on June she remarried a non-celebrity man four years her junior who works as a manager at SM C&C.
[Photo] Seo Dong-ju's Tto.Do.Dong
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