Review: This is a review article written after watching the broadcast.
On "X's privacy," Jin Hyun-geun and Gil Yeon-ju, who were known as the fighting-couple, appeared, and their continuing fighting in front of their son after the divorce left the panelists aghast.
On the 7th on TV CHOSUN entertainment show "X's privacy," Jin Hyun-geun. Gil Yeon-ju appeared.
Jin Hyun-geun and Gil Yeon-ju, who were known as the fighting-couple, eventually divorced. currently in their second year after the divorce. Their post-divorce situation was revealed. Jin Hyun-geun is living with his parents. He was working as a manager at a franchise bar. He always gets off work around 4–5 a.m., so his days and nights are reversed. Jin Hyun-geun starts his day looking at photos of his child. When he expressed he wanted to see the child, his ex-wife Gil Yeon-ju said, "What a lie, then you should come to see the child; you don't come to see the child," criticizing him and showing a fierce demeanor.
Jin Hyun-geun, who went to work as a bar manager, then video-called his child and said, "My son is the reason I live; I wish my son to be healthy," and "mental health is important too. There were many fights and I felt a lot of guilt for the mental abuse," he said. He conveyed a father's wish that his child be able to laugh when he wants to laugh. Jin Hyun-geun, who shed tears talking about his son, said, "There were times the child forced a smile," and "When I go to visitation he smiles brightly; on one hand seeing that smiling face puts my mind at ease."
At this, Jang Yoon Jeong also said with regret, "No matter what, you shouldn't show the child fighting in front of them." Then, watching the monitor, Gil Yeon-ju, seeming to have many complaints, said, "I have so much to say," and "He says he's loving and sorry for not doing enough, but then he should come to visitation consistently," and claimed that after moving to Cheongju he does not come often, showing visible conflict over visitation.
And the visitation day arrived. The sight of the three meeting together puzzled viewers. It turned out Jin Hyun-geun said it was necessary for all three to see each other to show the child his parents together. But actually Jin Hyun-geun and Gil Yeon-ju did not greet each other even in front of the child. Also, when Jin Hyun-geun bought a book not suitable for the child's age, an upper-grade elementary school book, Gil Yeon-ju said, "For now I said thank you," and made a bitter expression. Kim Gu Ra and Jang Yoon Jeong defended him, saying, "It's fine, he just bought it; show it to him later."
Then, Jin Hyun-geun, who had sent child support, expressed frustration that Gil Yeon-ju did not show him photos and videos of the child. Gil Yeon-ju then said, "If you want to see the child, come see him." As coldness flowed between the two, the child continued to be seen watching anxiously on camera. Even the panelists watching the monitor sadly said, "Talk when the child is not here. They're being mindful. Don't say those things when the kids aren't around." Jang Yoon Jeong also said, "In that state just say 'okay.'" Kim Gu Ra even pleaded with Gil Yeon-ju, who said she wouldn't send photos, "Ma'am, please show us the children's photos." On the monitor, scenes were captured of the two raising their voices while their young son watched nervously in the background. The panelists criticized, "For the child's emotional well-being it's better for the three to meet, but the child ends up playing alone." When Gil Yeon-ju said to Jin Hyun-geun in front of the child, "Visitation is something you should handle alone; why do you keep dragging me into it," Jin Hyun-geun replied, "As the child grows, memories of mom and dad having fun together should form," to which Gil Yeon-ju retorted, "Do memories form from meeting once a month?" showing displeasure. Later, when Gil Yeon-ju hoped for weekday visitation, Jin Hyun-geun said, "That's a fantasy novel... it's hard to come from Cheongju to Seoul because of my overnight shifts," and Gil Yeon-ju said, "Twice a month visitation — don't you have a life? I already reduced two visitations to one and cut eight hours to two," conveying that she had made some concessions.
Jin Hyun-geun said, "I also have the obvious right to see the child. Telling me to only attend visitation is selfish," and asked, "Show me the video call," and Gil Yeon-ju said, "If you want to see him, come see the child," and once again a tense argument began. Regarding Jin Hyun-geun's situation of having a job that prevents rest on weekends, Gil Yeon-ju snapped, "You should somehow get time off and come; isn't that your situation?" When Jin Hyun-geun angrily asked, "Are you cutting me off from my child?" Gil Yeon-ju replied, "You don't seem interested in the child; is exercise more important than visiting your child?" and voices rose over their differences. They showed the sharp demeanor they had before the divorce. Gil Yeon-ju said, "I have nothing more to say to you; I don't want to fight," and, "You're living so well, I hope you won't interfere," she left the scene, and Jin Hyun-geun continued to vent his complaints, saying, "At least send a video and photos once; that is a basic right."
With the continuing quarrel, the child was eventually left neglected. Moreover, the never-ending fighting in front of the child left the MCs at a loss for words. The panelists all said, "Stop it," and "You're both right, but don't do it in front of the child." Faced with irreconcilable differences, Kim Gu Ra urged, "If the husband watches our broadcast today, don't insist on meeting together; even if you say you'll send photos, never meet together." The panelists said, "I hope the three don't meet like that; even if they fight, they fight intensely," and remarked, "It feels like they haven't divorced," criticizing the unchanged situation.
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