As news of the current condition of Ok Kyung-yi, the wife of Taejin-ah, who is in the seventh year since the onset of dementia, was revealed, the hope for a "miracle" that he did not let go of even in despair left a heavy feeling.
On the 16th episode of TV CHOSUN's "Joseon's lover," Ok Kyung-yi, who was shown publicly for the first time in two years, appeared. He appeared in a wheelchair with white hair, looking noticeably frail, which saddened those around him. Even Taejin-ah, who had difficulty arriving at the hospital, showed obvious signs of fatigue at his advanced age of 72.
The attending physician explained, "He is in the seventh year since onset and is currently in a severe state of dementia, at a baby-like stage." He added, "Instead of expecting responses, it is necessary to accept all the patient's words and actions with an open heart." He also noted that when the condition is good, meaningful responses can occasionally occur. In fact, Taejin-ah conveyed a small moment of hope, saying, "A few days ago my wife called our son's name."
Reminiscence therapy continued. It was a method of stimulating memory with familiar songs and photos. However, Ok Kyung-yi barely reacted even to wedding photos, past stage footage, and scenes filled with the couple's memories. Faced with memories that are gradually disappearing, Taejin-ah's expression grew heavy.
In the end, he broke down in front of his mother-in-law's grave. "Living like this is not living. A day feels like a thousand years," he cried, pleading, "Please, let Ok Kyung-yi not be in pain. Please let the dementia get better." It was a moment when all the times he could not cry in front of his family poured out at once.
Despite everything, Taejin-ah looked at his wife and said, "There will be a miracle," not giving up hope. The husband's figure, enduring between despair and hope, showed both the reality of caregiving and the family's love, leaving a deep aftertaste.
[Photo] "Joseon's lover"
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