This is a review article written after watching the broadcast.
'These days parenting - My child like gold' actor Jo Ji-hwan and his wife clashed over parenting approaches regarding Geumjjok-i.
On the 23rd broadcast of Channel A 'These days parenting - My child like gold', the story of 'a third-grade daughter who has to be attached to actor Jo Ji-hwan and his wife to live' was revealed, and a scene showing a clash over custody of Geumjjok-i was portrayed.
That day, Geumjjok-i's daily life of not being able to be separated from mom and dad even for a moment was revealed. Jo Ji-hwan and his wife felt the seriousness of Geumjjok-i's condition and were at a loss about what to do.
Jo Ji-hwan insisted on shock therapy and said, "I'll go out first, so follow me. Shouldn't we fix this?" and went outside before the English academy class. The father came out firmly despite Geumjjok-i's whining. When the mother reluctantly followed, Geumjjok-i followed them out too.
They soon arrived at the academy. For a level test they had to separate for a short time, and Geumjjok-i cried, saying she didn't want to be separated from mom and dad. The father firmly said no, but the mother, feeling sorry, accompanied her to the test site. The mother even answered on behalf of her daughter taking the English test, surprising everyone.
Stopping the video, Dr. Oh Eun-young said, "Let's think about this coldly," and pointed out, "She is going to learn because she doesn't know. When you go to learn, you must be confident. You should lower the anxiety by saying, 'It's okay, we came to learn.' If the mother is more agitated, the child looks at the parents' faces and asks, 'What's going on?' and anxiety rises."
She added, "The teacher asked her name. We should have waited a bit, but the mother was already anxious and answered before that. The child lost the chance to answer. The mother answered 'Grace' three times."
Dr. Oh Eun-young also expressed concern, saying, "Geumjjok-i does not express her own opinions. She does not perform the roles appropriate for her age," and noted, "She thinks her caregivers or protectors will do it for her."
After the English test, Geumjjok-i was supposed to attend class with friends but refused. The father tried to make her participate until the end, but the mother sided with Geumjjok-i, saying, "I think we should stop," and they headed home.
Conflicts in parenting views between the couple continued over Geumjjok-i's academy classes. Watching this, Dr. Oh Eun-young said, "The ways of dealing with anxiety are very different," but analyzed, "The important goal is to teach English. They are having a conversation leaving out the purpose of why they should learn English."
Dr. Oh Eun-young advised that when Geumjjok-i feels uncomfortable she expresses it as separation anxiety and said, "From 1 to 100, she expresses everything as separation anxiety. There are also things that make her feel uncomfortable. You have to break these down so the child can gain strength."
Meanwhile, Geumjjok-i confided inwardly, "It seems like mom and dad dislike me a little. Because they say hurtful things to me like 'Why can't you even do this? Don't cry,' I feel like crying and I'm upset and hurt," and Jo Ji-hwan and his wife cried with regret.
[Photo] Screenshot of the broadcast of 'These days parenting - My child like gold'
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