Broadcaster Pungja became furious over stories about husbands and boyfriends with bad drinking habits.
On the 5th, a video titled "Pungdaengi's worries never end..a counseling show that can't control its level" was uploaded to the "PungjaTV" channel.
That day Pungja took time to listen to subscribers' worries and offer counseling. The first case was a story wondering "how to fix a boyfriend's drinking habit of becoming sensitive and speaking harshly whenever he drinks," and Pungja angrily said, "I'm really sorry but I don't want to insult my Pungdaengi's boyfriend, but honestly he needs to get the shit beaten out of him. Honestly he really needs to get fucked up. He needs to get the shit beaten out of him. There's no way around this."
She said, "I can't say I don't have bad drinking habits either. First, my drinking habits are endless. If I drink, I like to have fun together until I fall asleep today. That's one of my drinking habits. But while there may be no one without drinking habits, I honestly see this as a different case. He's my boyfriend and I don't want to break up and I like him very much. In that situation you'd actually think about marriage to some extent, right? When I think of him as my lifelong partner in the distant future, this is really unacceptable. If we later marry and he drinks at home every day and when he drinks he emotionally does that only to me, he really needs to get the shit beaten out of him," she said in anger.
She continued, "Even this drinking habit is less likely to happen toward someone you don't want to hurt even when drunk. There's that unconscious restraint. But in the boyfriend's unconscious it's okay to make mistakes toward her. Do you know why? Because she accepts it. And because he knows she likes him. Because they won't break up. That's why it's worse. Of course I don't know how he behaves elsewhere, but basically he probably has drinking habits with other people too. But he'll be unusually harsh toward his partner. The reason is that she accepts it. You have to stop accepting it. It could get worse later. This may be the mild stuff. If it gets worse later, it's a big problem," she warned.
She added, "Don't meet after drinking, or don't drink together, or don't answer the phone when he calls after drinking—I'd like to see a perfect cutoff like that. Then you can say his heart changed, or that I'm having a hard time, something like that. If he uses that to announce a breakup, that's it. It might even be a grateful thing. It could be one of the good opportunities given by the heavens. What I think when I read this concern is that when you have time, beat him up like crazy. I recommend that," she said.
Meanwhile, the second story shocked listeners as it involved a husband who sexually assaulted his wife's friend after drinking. While drinking at home together, the husband's attempt to touch the body part of an older sister known to the poster was captured on a home camera. In addition, among friends who slept at the couple's house, there were talks like "the husband touched her, he didn't touch her," but the husband reportedly denied remembering. However, the poster blamed her changed self and said she wanted to get back together with her husband.
After hearing the story, Pungja said in astonishment, "What is this story? What's the worry?" and added, "I'll go through it one by one. You asked me to speak coldly. What is this? What do you mean? I don't know why the relationship has to get better. You may not be able to divorce to protect the family because of the children, but how can he touch my friends? He did it every time he came after drinking, didn't he? My friends are saying the husband touched her or didn't touch her. It's not just once. There's evidence on the home camera," and said, "I don't know. Should this be maintained? Speaking from my standard, I don't know why this should be maintained."
She said, "If my boyfriend, once married, the husband does that to my friends? I don't think I could see my friends or my boyfriend or husband anymore. What kind of doglike situation is this. I think it's no different from a beast. How can you express sexual things after getting drunk? I don't understand. This is a dangerous person. Why put up with this. This has nothing to do with gaining weight or a changed appearance from before. From the few lines the sender provided I can't judge, but from what I see I don't understand the overall flow, but if she gained weight and couldn't control her appetite and behaves like this in front of her husband, does she think it's because of her? I wonder. But what does that have to do with anything. No matter how my wife gains weight or looks different, she doesn't sexually grope her girlfriend's friends," she pressed.
She continued, "The husband is also strange and the older sister needs to get her wits about her. In life you need clear endings and beginnings at certain times. I think this is one of those times. I want them to break up. I think this will cause an accident. If the husband says he doesn't remember, show him the home camera. If he still says he doesn't remember, then a hundred or a thousand times, concede and call it a drinking habit. Concede a hundred, a thousand, ten thousand times. Then don't drink. What kind of thing is this. The older sister shouldn't invite anyone to the house. I'd be upset if my man did this, too, but what did my friends do wrong?" she expressed frustration.
She reiterated, "I want them to break up. I can't accept it by my standards. If it were my matter I'd have beaten him like crazy. Beaten like crazy—what's to beat? I think I'd have told my friends to report it. 'He's my husband but he's really a doglike bastard. Report him,' I would have said. It's that unacceptable by my standards, so I want them to just break up. That's the answer. I don't think this person will change," she repeatedly emphasized.
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