This is a review article written after watching the broadcast.
The wife of the "mirror couple" recalled a difficult past.
On the 15th, MBC's 'Oh Eun-young Report: Marriage hell' (hereinafter Marriage hell) featured a "mirror couple" who felt the same fear and the same anger.
The wife said the husband has extreme mood swings, "He gets so angry as if there is no tomorrow. He just gets angry to overpower me," and then she cried.
Oh Eun-young asked, "If the husband didn't get very angry, why does the wife become extremely tense?" The husband answered, "Watching the video, my expression looks so bad. Even if I approach kindly, she might feel repelled." Hearing this, Oh Eun-young analyzed to the husband, "You express it as if blaming others. You scold. The other person feels bad and hurt."
Oh Eun-young also explained, "The husband's big problem is denial. He flatly refuses. It's not a memory problem. When embarrassed or in a difficult situation, he just denies it." She added, "The wife pursues the husband's mistakes to lower her anxiety. Because the wife is fearful and anxious, her body hurts again. It's a vicious cycle."
The wife explained her position, "The reason I can't stand that is.. my father was very strict. He was a soldier, and when he came home from work I had to study while being beaten. If I got just one problem wrong I had to be beaten. I grew up in a suffocating life. Didn't that incident happen two days after we married? That seemed to have caused me a big wound."
Oh Eun-young explained, "The husband is like a father. She might have felt, 'He made a big mistake.' She lived avoiding her father, so how terrified would she have been. Resentment, fear, despair. Those unbearably negative feelings became a lump."
[Photo] MBC's 'Oh Eun-young Report: Marriage hell'
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