-Review: This is a review article written after watching the broadcast.
In "Same Bed, Different Dreams 2," singer Nabi resolved to accuse her husband after seven years of marriage and exploded over shouldering childcare alone while pregnant.
On the broadcast of SBS entertainment show You Are My Destiny - Same Bed, Different Dreams 2 on the 8th, Nabi, with a heavy expression, opened by saying, "I came to accuse my husband who has his mind elsewhere." On the street, Nabi said, "Haven't you seen my husband? Today I have to settle this."
Her husband, who allegedly changed 180 degrees in their seventh year of marriage. Nabi said, "From my position, it makes me cry." Meanwhile, Nabi's husband, Jo Seong-hwan, is a former soccer player. He is currently the director of children's soccer classes. The revealed daily life was cold from the morning. Husband Jo Seong-hwan left the master bedroom and went straight to another room as soon as he opened his eyes, fixed his gaze on his phone, and did not get involved in housework or childcare at all.
She delivered some good news. Nabi is currently pregnant with her second child. After their first son, she shared the news that the second is a daughter. At the time of the recording, she was 18 weeks pregnant. Then Kim Sook said, "When you are pregnant, things change; the husband should move more," delivering a sharp remark, and Nabi also said, "That's why I ask more because my back hurts. But I'm the type to be spirited, so my husband thinks I do everything, and that's the problem."
At the subsequent preparation to take their child to school, all the burden fell on working mom Nabi. Nabi asked her husband to brush the child's teeth, but in the end the pregnant Nabi took it upon herself and washed the child. On the exhausting morning, Nabi, who was 18 weeks pregnant, struggled with poor condition. She looked like her abdomen was tightening and she was in pain. Also, her husband remained silent even when called repeatedly. He was blatantly lying down looking at his phone, and seeing this on the monitor, Kim Gu-ra said, "This person has a problem."
Eventually, Nabi, who sent their son to school alone, expressed her hurt, but her husband reacted calmly, saying, "It can't be helped." After taking the child to school and returning home, Nabi found the housework untouched. The dishes and toys remained as they were. His excuse was, "I was working, so that's how it was." From the morning he had been passing on pickup notices to parents and such. Even the production staff questioned, "Did he do that for two hours?" The husband said, "I want to help with school drop-off, but there are about 250 members in the soccer class and I'm caring for them alone," and "If I get contacts frequently, I have to respond as they come."
He even plays on four to five early-morning soccer clubs. Though busy, he strictly maintained his personal life. Nabi said, "I want him to quit for the time being; when the second is born he will have to help with childcare," and, being a working spouse herself, said, "I can't quit my job." When the husband said, "It's a social activity for the soccer class," Nabi replied, "If you put it that way, I should have social activities too; am I not working?" adding, "No matter how busy you are, family should be first. Even while caring for our first child, my husband's mind was (on soccer)."
Nabi said, "There's a bigger problem," and said, "He goes to the chicken restaurant instead of going home after early-morning soccer," reporting even late-night after-parties. A week filled with work, hobbies, and after-parties all centered on soccer. Moreover, the husband's teasing and flippant tone was a problem. He avoided serious conversations. Nabi exploded, saying, "Don't joke around," and "Why do you keep trying to let it pass?" The husband repeated the same excuse, saying, "The truth is... quitting early-morning soccer is..." Nabi said, "Are relationships with those people important and aren't our marital relations important?" and asked, "What if my heart drifts away and I leave you, dear?" leaving a pointed remark. Nabi said, "Promise this nationwide," and the husband said, "I'll discuss it."
The conflict continued into the night. Tired from hard childcare, Nabi called her husband, but the husband who had said he would come home early did not return, and when she called, through the receiver amid noisy crowd sounds came only the answer, "I'm in a meeting." He even hung up the phone unilaterally before the conversation ended. His earlier promise to "reflect" and that he would change by morning made her feel even more hurt. Kim Gu-ra said, "Because the husband doesn't put his phone down, that's deliberately not answering," delivering a sharp remark.
When contact was cut off, Nabi said, "I will make a decision," and went out into the night herself to find her husband. Moreover, Nabi was pregnant and not alone. The husband had come home past midnight the previous day saying he had a company gathering. Nabi said, "What I had been holding in finally burst," and "I want to settle this; I left our first child with my mother who lives nearby," and thus searched for her husband.
Nabi went to her husband's regular spots. Even residents testified, "We didn't see him today," and the situation reached a boiling point. Nabi, searching for her husband for 30 minutes while pregnant, found him. The husband who said he was in a meeting was at a drinking gathering. He said, "It's the end-of-year gatherings." It turned out to be members of the apartment soccer class. They were all his members and fathers. Nabi said, "I came because I wanted to settle this," and said, "I want to support my husband's work, but after work there are four more private early-morning soccer clubs." Nabi said, "It would be good if he came right after it ended, but they gather like this," and "I understand having a drink; I was also a frequent attendee of meetings," and added, "Still, if there is a baby and a family, you should reduce the number of times," revealing her true feelings.
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