Influencer Song Su-yeon, who drew attention for a "romantic wedding" by singing a self-performed wedding song on a rainy day, has divorced.
On the 5th, Song Su-yeon revealed, "Hello everyone. As of yesterday I suddenly really got divorced. I was hollow and upset and cried a lot yesterday. Today was originally a day I was supposed to go to school, but I couldn't go."
She said, "The day in June when I announced I would stand on my own was the day I filed the lawsuit. There were two lawsuits: one received the judgment document, and the other suddenly had a mediation date set, so I went to court yesterday. I didn't want to mediate, but they said if I didn't appear I would be seen as an unfaithful plaintiff, so I went," adding, "They told me I didn't have to mediate so I could come comfortably, so I really went lightly, but I let go of everything and signed."
She continued, "This is a really important part of my life, but it seemed like everyone except me thought of it like handling business. Life is very subjective. People act subjectively, but in issues between men and women, especially in legal marriage relationships, I believed people should take responsibility for their actions, and because I did not receive a sincere apology from anyone, I hoped the law would judge."
She added, "I was so upset that the situation that flew away so hollowly happened. But the only reason I signed was for the child. I failed at marriage and divorce, but I thought dragging this out would be emotionally bad for the child, so I decided to let go of everything and end it here. I decided to use the energy I would spend on that for my child, who wouldn't even feel pain if you put it in their eyes, even a little more. But I was angry. I was upset and hollow and cried so much. I think I cried my eyes out in my mother's arms for the first time in years."
She also said, "In June my mind was only to think of myself and the child. I'm sharing this because I want to reaffirm that feeling now. I keep saying this decision was for the child, or no, don't use the child as an excuse, this was really for my future, rationalizing myself. And although the relationship between mom and dad is really over, Dohwan is precious as Dohwan himself and deserves to receive mom and dad's love, and I want to tell him it is not your fault. Mom promises to responsibly protect you with that one feeling called love until the end."
Song Su-yeon honestly revealed, "It's very hard. I lost a lot," and added, "Since June I have been sparing sleep to make money again. Recently these things have made it hard to focus on work and studies.. Today I'll shake it off and try to start again! I will stay strong! Everyone, do your best in your subjective lives! Fighting! Hengtigi!"
Below is the full text.
Hello everyone.
As of yesterday I suddenly really got divorced.
I was hollow and upset and cried a lot yesterday.
Today was originally a day I was supposed to go to school, but I couldn't go.
The day in June when I announced I would stand on my own was the day I filed the lawsuit.
There were two lawsuits: one received the judgment document,
and the other suddenly had a mediation date set, so I went to court yesterday.
I didn't want to mediate, but they said if I didn't appear I would be seen as an unfaithful plaintiff, so I went.
They told me I didn't have to mediate so I could come comfortably, so I really went lightly,
I let go of everything and signed.
The atmosphere was strange.
This is a really important part of my life,
but it seemed like everyone except me thought of it like handling business.
Life is very subjective.
People act subjectively, but
in issues between men and women, especially in legal marriage relationships,
I believed people should take responsibility for their actions,
and because I did not receive a sincere apology from anyone, I hoped the law would judge.
I was so upset that the situation that flew away so hollowly happened.
But the only reason I signed was for the child.
I failed at marriage and divorce,
and I thought dragging this out would be emotionally bad for the child,
so I thought it was right to let go of everything and end it here.
I decided to use the energy I would spend on that for my child, who wouldn't even feel pain if you put it in their eyes,
and use even a little more on them.
But I was angry. I was upset and hollow and cried so much. I think I cried my eyes out in my mother's arms for the first time in years.
In June my mind was only to think of myself and the child.
I'm sharing this because I want to reaffirm that feeling now.
I keep saying this decision was for the child, or no, don't use the child as an excuse, this was really for my future, rationalizing myself.
And although the relationship between mom and dad is really over,
Dohwan is precious as Dohwan himself and deserves to receive mom and dad's love, and I want to tell him it is not your fault.
Mom promises to responsibly protect you with that one feeling called love until the end.
It's very hard. I lost a lot.
Since June I have been sparing sleep to make money again.
Recently these things have made it hard to focus on work and studies..
Today I'll shake it off and try to start again!
I will stay strong!
Everyone, do your best in your subjective lives!
Fighting! Hengtigi!
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