Lim Hyo-seong expressed dissatisfaction with their separated living arrangement.
On the 24th, a new video was released on the YouTube channel "Human That's Shu" titled "Couples counseling part 2! Will counseling help?" Shu and Lim Hyo-seong said they received couples counseling for the first time in 15 years of marriage.
That day Lim Hyo-seong said about his wife Shu, "I have zero trust, I have no trust but an enormous amount of remorse. I felt very sorry. I quit exercising, and I wandered around a lot trying to find something, so I have a lot of guilt and feel sorry," he said.
Lim Hyo-seong explained, "So when this person was wrong, I thought it shouldn't fall apart this much, and I tried to pull them up no matter what. And I thought this person's heart would come back. Even though we grew apart, I thought if I made enough effort they would return. After a lot of time passed, I thought this might be this person's tendency and true self, so I let go."
He went on to mention his mixed feelings, "So this person likes distance and says living like this is comfortable, but I really dislike living like this. I was conflicted because they casually said this kind of relationship is good."
The counselor asked, "You felt sorry and guilty, but the counselor said that is gratitude. Could you express that you were grateful?" and after some thought Lim Hyo-seong agreed.
The counselor who brought the two together mentioned each of their counseling content and suggested they express gratitude to each other, and the two mentioned things they were grateful for about each other and smiled. The counselor also told Lim Hyo-seong, "You should refrain from drinking as much as possible," and Shu agreed, "Yes. At some point you started drinking a lot. I didn't know either." Hearing this, Lim Hyo-seong added to Shu, "It's thanks to you~ it's thanks to you~" which brought laughter.
After finishing the couples counseling, Shu said, "Now that I know they were like that and I was like this, I feel I can finally talk about it. It seems true that my husband really liked me. There were moments that moved me. I know my own personality, and when the counselor said 'try to confide in someone,' I think I wanted to hear that kind of thing. I didn't think counseling would change me, but I felt that getting counseling like this is okay. I thought we need conversations."
Lim Hyo-seong said, "I think it was good to be able to say what I wanted to say. It seems helpful. What if it had been a little earlier. What if we had done it before it got later. I liked that the counselor stood neutral and told us to try to understand."
Lim Hyo-seong also expressed regret about mentioning during counseling that "a friend-like relationship is uncomfortable," saying, "I originally really like things being whole. I think of the whole family going out for an evening walk as a small pleasure, but now small things have become more uncomfortable."
Meanwhile, Shu and Lim Hyo-seong married in 2010 and have one son and two daughters.
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