This is a review article written after watching the broadcast.
Dr. Oh Eun-young of "My Golden Child" strongly criticized the grandmother's behavior toward the Golden Child.
On the episode of Channel A's "These Days Parenting - My Golden Child" aired on the 26th, continuing from last week with the story of a middle school second-year Golden Child who speaks in extreme terms, Dr. Oh Eun-young was shown meeting with the grandmother.
That day Dr. Oh Eun-young was angered by the grandmother's shocking behavior. The grandmother called out the father, not only disciplining the Golden Child and badmouthing the biological mother but even slapping the children in a situation full of irritation, causing shock.
Even the father, rather than stopping the grandmother, sympathized and supported her. To those two Dr. Oh Eun-young spoke strongly, calling it "emotional abuse" and "gaslighting."
For the Golden Child's prescription, Dr. Oh Eun-young firmly said, "Please separate from the grandmother." When the flustered father defended the grandmother rather than the children, Dr. Oh Eun-young said sharply, "Compared with the pain and wounds the children receive from the grandmother's violence and sadistic attitude, the fact that the mother is lonely and bored is nothing. It is very regrettable that even in this situation she cannot distinguish between the two."
Later, meeting with the grandmother in a bleak atmosphere, Dr. Oh Eun-young began by saying, "It seems the grandmother does not well understand the Golden Child's difficulties." The grandmother then complained, "For me, (the Golden Child) acts oddly because his head is big. He doesn't listen," expressing that she was having a hard time because of the Golden Child.
Then Dr. Oh Eun-young said, "Shall we watch the video together?" and silently showed daily life footage. Seeing herself badmouthing and irritated, the grandmother bowed her head deeply, and Dr. Oh Eun-young coldly pointed out, "From head to toe the grandmother is full of irritation and anger. It's too much. I show this because it seems you don't know."
In particular, when the grandmother faced the footage of slapping the children, she turned her head as if unable to watch. In response, Dr. Oh Eun-young said firmly, "This is violence. It's too severe. Grandmother, I prescribed that you move out when the Golden Child's father asked me what he should do," she said strongly.
She added, "It seems the grandmother should step back from household duties and childcare. In this situation, it is better not to do it."
Then the grandmother cried, and Dr. Oh Eun-young comforted her, saying, "You really need to think about this seriously. How could I love the Golden Child more? The grandmother loves him more. But since you came to consult like this..." The grandmother showed remorse, saying, "I should do better for the children."
Meanwhile, the grandmother had time to understand the Golden Child's feelings through a role-reversal psychodrama. Confronted with herself blaming the biological mother out of anger, the grandmother was overwhelmed with remorse and shame toward the Golden Child and did not know what to do.
After the psychodrama experience ended, she burst into tears she had been holding back. The grandmother said, "It's so painful and so hard," and cried, "I shouldn't have done this. The children must have been so exhausted too."
Later, when facing the Golden Child, the grandmother apologized, saying, "I'm so sorry." Then the grandmother hugged the Golden Child and said, "Grandmother will pay more attention now. I'm sorry."
[Photo] Screenshot of the broadcast of "These Days Parenting - My Golden Child"
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