"My Golden Child" Jung Ju-ri cried after hearing Dr. Oh Eun-young's words.
On the 12th episode of Channel A's "These Days Parenting - My Golden Child," the story "Comedian Jung Ju-ri's golden five siblings' combat parenting" was revealed, and Jung Ju-ri appeared in the studio.
That day, Jung Ju-ri mostly laughed things off during parenting, speaking gently rather than firmly. In response, Dr. Oh Eun-young pointed out, "There is no firmness."
Jung Ju-ri also took her five siblings to the dentist, and the children showed signs of distress throughout their treatment. In particular, she winced at the intense reaction of the fourth child, and even after the treatment was finished and they came out, she still showed signs of discomfort.
Jung Ju-ri lamented, "I'm having a hard time. As a mother, I should be comforting them, but my expression seems to make the kids feel worse. I worry they'll be shaken or hurt; maybe it's just my personality and I can't help it."
Then in the studio she explained, "My second child once caused a huge scene in the past. My mom told me to hold tight, but I couldn't breathe. It was so hard. I also got severely scolded, and that's why it became like that."
Dr. Oh Eun-young criticized, "There is a sympathetic side, but when a child cries it might bother others, so I think she worries about that too." Jung Ju-ri replied, "I feel sorry to the dentist, we're filming."
Dr. Oh Eun-young said, "The person I'm most worried about is Ju-ri. Ju-ri is very sensitive to how others perceive her. She is highly aware of how people see her."
She continued, "By nature she can't say things people dislike; in situations she holds back and thinks it's right for her to suffer a loss, and she even can't say unpleasant things to her children. And since her job is as an entertainer, that tendency has been reinforced. There are also many obligations to be more responsible and to behave well."
Dr. Oh Eun-young comforted her, "The public can't be controlled no matter what you do. Even if you do your best, some people will misunderstand you, and if you try to control and accommodate everything you can't control, it becomes too hard," and Jung Ju-ri choked up.
Meanwhile, in a sentence completion test Jung Ju-ri revealed, "My biggest resolution is that I can't say unpleasant things." In response, Dr. Oh Eun-young advised, "I think you've done your best, and children at this age are naturally like this. That's fine. It would be good to have that firmness. How can you adjust to everything?"
[Photo] Screenshot from "These Days Parenting - My Golden Child"
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