A woman who said she was hurt after dating a soccer player appeared on 'Ask Us Anything Fortune Teller.'
On the Nov. 11 episode of KBS Joy's 'Ask Us Anything Fortune Teller,' a female participant shared her story, saying, "I am living a life disconnected from people." She expressed her concerns about whether it was okay to continue living this way, noting, "I was bullied during my school years and have experienced many strange things in life, which led me to keep my distance from others."
The participant, who was bullied for unknown reasons during middle school, recalled, "The perpetrators flooded my Cyworld shared diary with insults and sent messages via messenger saying, 'I want to hit you with a metal pipe.'" While she was attending school, her grandfather noticed her change and asked her mother, and she eventually revealed the fact of the school violence, which was resolved through mediation by the vice principal.
Her relationships during high school were smooth, but she received ridiculous proposals from an unknown middle-aged man, asking, "Can you sell stockings?" and offered, "I will give you 20,000 won if you sell them." She also had an uncomfortable experience with a man who had difficulty moving, who said it was his dream to hold a woman's hand and wouldn't let go. The participant added, "My humanity dropped, so I resisted and ran away."
Having worked since she was 19, she encountered uncomfortable situations during company dinners, such as when the CEO asked, "Can I lie down with my knees on your lap?" She recounted the astonishing scene, saying, "When I said it wouldn't work, he lay down with his bag on my lap."
Her connections through social media have not been smooth either. She explained how she received a direct message from a soccer player, saying, "My ideal type is actor Kim Ji-hoon, and he looked like him. I thought I was guaranteed his identity since he is someone who comes up in a search." However, he left the outrageous remark that "he doesn't date for more than 3 months."
The participant shared, "In reality, after dating for 3 months, I received a message from another woman saying, 'Your boyfriend is hitting on me.' After confirming the facts, I ended the relationship."
The participant noted that she has no one she is close to except her current husband. In response, Seo Jang-hoon advised, "Be a little stingy with your emotions. If you pour out too much emotion, your life will be ruined. Train yourself to maintain that balance."
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