The story of Geumjok expressing anger towards her mother has been revealed.
On the broadcast of Channel A's 'Recent Parenting: My Precious Child' on the 13th, the story of Geumjok, a middle school student who expresses extreme anger only towards her mother, was shared.
That day, Geumjok showed a violent reaction, grabbing her mother's hair and kicking when things did not go her way during their conversation, shocking those around them.
Her mother said, "I divorced when Geumjok was 7 years old. I felt suffocated being at home, so I said I would move out and see the child once a week. The child's father said that wasn't allowed, so I told him to do as he liked and hurriedly left the house."
Her mother said that she had not seen her children for a year and a half and had missed Geumjok's entrance ceremony. She stated, "Geumjok mentioned this when she was in the 5th grade, but she said she doesn't remember it."
In response, Dr. Oh Eun-young said, "It is truly possible to not remember. It could be such a heartbreaking event that one unconsciously buries it. Or it might be too painful to talk about."
Dr. Oh Eun-young noted, "In the end, she was only thinking about her mother. If I put it negatively to justify the divorce, she held the children as leverage. As a result, she experienced feelings of abandonment from her mother during that process. She likely felt extreme fear and terror, feeling that she was not a valuable person."
Her mother shared the circumstances under which she reunited with her children. She said, "The child was in elementary school but could not read Korean. I brought the child in and taught her for about a year, teaching her harshly," admitting to using corporal punishment while teaching.
Dr. Oh Eun-young stated, "Children who have experienced abandonment or neglect look for their mothers. When they approach their mother, they feel attacked and pull away. When they get closer, they feel attacked again. The child has had such experiences."
Dr. Oh Eun-young advised that "it seems a case of maladaptive anxious attachment has formed," drawing attention.
[Photo: Channel A 'Recent Parenting: My Precious Child' broadcast capture]
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