A child named Geumjok has appeared, displaying violent behavior by pulling her mother's hair.
On the 13th broadcast of Channel A's "Recent Parenting: Precious My Child", a story was revealed about Geumjok, a second-year middle school student, expressing extreme anger towards her mother.
That day, Geumjok easily became angry during a conversation with her mother, kicking her and pulling her hair, which was indicative of problematic behavior, and in a fit of anger, she unexpectedly said she wouldn't participate in the filming, surprising those around her.
Geumjok's school life was revealed. Geumjok was active during physical education classes and even apologized first to a friend whom she accidentally bumped into, showing a different side of herself compared to at home, which astonished those around her.
Geumjok's mother said, "This is a new school I transferred to this year. But I'm glad to see that she is doing well, more than expected." Doctor Oh Eun-young noted, "It seems that school is a place where Geumjok feels comfortable. She seems happy when she is with her friends. At home, she spends days like a war with her mother, so it was touching."
Doctor Oh Eun-young stated that Geumjok shows no problematic behavior outside and it is difficult to view her as having a behavioral disorder or anger management issues. Doctor Oh Eun-young advised, "We need to take time to understand what kind of influence I have on the child."
That day, Geumjok's maternal grandmother visited her house. Geumjok was not attending school. Geumjok confided to her grandmother about her mother, saying, "When my mother argues, she tries to win."
The grandmother said, "If you can't manage your anger now, it will be hard when you grow up. Let's try to control it well from now on," and with the grandmother's kind words, Geumjok also displayed a calm demeanor.
When her mother returned after going out, she searched through Geumjok's bag without permission to check her absence report. Geumjok asked her mother, "Why do you ignore me, and why should I listen to you?"
Geumjok and her mother clashed again, with Geumjok showing violent behavior by grabbing her mother's hair, surprising those around her. The grandmother tried to intervene between Geumjok and her mother, but Geumjok continued to rage.
The grandmother took Geumjok to a room and said, "We had agreed not to do this, and I'm very upset," shedding tears. Seeing her grandmother cry, Geumjok also shed tears and sought comfort in her embrace.
Meanwhile, on that day, Doctor Oh Eun-young learned that during Geumjok's past separation from her mother for a year and a half due to the divorce process, a maladaptive form of anxious attachment might have formed in Geumjok.
[Photo] Capture from Channel A's "Recent Parenting: Precious My Child" broadcast.
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