Dr. Oh Eun-young sharply analyzed the behavior of the husband from the 'internal couple'.
In the MBC program 'Oh Eun-young Report – Hell of Marriage' aired on the 17th, the 'internal couple' appeared, where the husband goes out of the house every day and the wife, who is fully responsible for the household economy by working 12 hours a day due to her husband.
The wife said, "We had many quarrels since the early days of our marriage. My husband likes to be out and about. I want to have fun too, but it feels like I'm trapped. I was feeling down. It didn't seem to resolve, whether it worked or not, I just thought I should try to make it happen," explaining the reason for applying to 'Hell of Marriage.'
While the wife was so focused on her restaurant work that she even skipped meals, the husband left the house using crutches. He explained, "I developed spinal stenosis two months ago. I have been using a wheelchair. I feel like I want to cut off my leg."
The wife pretended not to know her husband who came to the store with crutches and passed by him indifferently. Even though he showed signs of being in pain, he was treated like a transparent person. The husband revealed his upset feelings by saying, "I felt so hurt. Why can't you just ask if I'm okay? It was too sad, given how much pain I'm in." The wife retorted, "It seems like you only make a fuss about being in pain. I have more to bear than you do."
Oh Eun-young analyzed, "In the video, the husband says, 'Even though I'm in so much pain, it seems like no one is worried about me. My heart is heavy.' Don't you work hard in the neighborhood? If you go out and meet local residents, they might express their concern. If you're suffering due to pain, your daily life should be similar. Your daily appearance looks like someone who is not much in pain."
She added, "Some people feel satisfaction being in that painful position. It's like being taken care of like a baby. 'I seem like a good person.' I think that's important. There seems to be a strong desire to appear as a capable person. If expressed negatively, it could be arrogance."
[Photo] MBC 'Oh Eun-young Report – Hell of Marriage'
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