In the program 'My Precious Child,' Geumjok caught attention by insulting his father.
On the 21st, the story of Geumjok, who even refuses to wear underwear, was aired on Channel A's 'Recent Parenting - My Precious Child.'
That day, Geumjok showed not only a refusal to wear clothes and underwear but also a dislike for washing. He even commanded his mother and insulted his father by calling him a "kidnapper," shocking everyone.
Also, while Geumjok's mother was briefly out, when his father approached, he spat out, "Go away. I'm going to report you. Stop it, kidnapper," and, "I dislike you the most now." His father had a calm reaction, saying he had heard the term 'kidnapper' so many times, but his mother was in shock.
Dr. Oh Eun-young noted that during a sentence completion test, Geumjok said the strange thing was that "what makes me sad?" was "a friend calling me by a different surname." She then asked, "Geumjok, do you know that your surname is different from your father's surname? The puzzle comes together. I understand why he feels this way. How did you introduce your stepfather at first?" The mother replied that she thought Geumjok was too young and hadn't explained it yet, saying, "It just seemed like he became a father when he was four. I introduced him as a father who came back from abroad."
Moreover, the mother reportedly told Geumjok that he has a twin sibling without any prior explanation. Dr. Oh Eun-young expressed concern, saying, "They did not inform the child of all this. He did not know anything when he was younger. But around the time he was about to enter elementary school, things that previously went unnoticed started to become visible, and he began to understand. There are things that he can figure out even without an explanation. He might wonder, 'My father and I have different surnames?' It would be confusing for him. In confusion, he might feel anxious, thinking, 'Is my father my biological father? Is that right?'"
"Then, the mother informs him that he has a twin sibling. Then he wonders, '(Geumjok asks) where is my sibling? Who is raising them? If my mother isn't raising them, were they abandoned?' This is where it starts to become horror. He might think, 'What if I get abandoned too?' An exceptionally clever child might even think, 'Am I being kidnapped?' This all creates unresolved doubts and conflict due to calling his father a kidnapper. Can you imagine how confusing and anxious that can be?"
Ultimately, Geumjok's anxiety about potentially being abandoned by his mother due to the confusion regarding his birth secret and identity led to issues. Dr. Oh Eun-young urged, "You need to tell him. This will help the child organize his thoughts significantly. He will regain his sense of security."
[Photo] Screen capture from the broadcast of 'Recent Parenting - My Precious Child'